Blog Post
“I’m already doing it.”
The four most dangerous words in customer experience.
by Edward Murphy

“I’m already doing it.”
The four most dangerous words in customer experience.

When I hear this, I know there’s a deeper conversation to be had.

What exactly are you doing?
Who defined it?
Does your team interpret it the same way?
Is it built around your personal definition of ‘good’?

Let’s play a quick game.

I can ask 10 people to go to the store and buy a lemon—I’ll get 10 lemons.

But if I ask those same 10 people to show me an exceptional experience, the results will vary wildly. Some will show something you’d call average. Some might wow you. But they’ll all be different.

Why?

Because experiences are personal—shaped by individual perspectives, backgrounds, expectations, and values.

And that’s the challenge most organizations underestimate.

They believe they’re delivering a great customer experience because they think it’s great. But the real test is whether it’s clear, consistent, and compelling—not just in intention, but in execution across every function and team.

Having a 𝗡𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗵 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿 or 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝘃𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 gives direction.
A 𝗯𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗽𝗿𝗶𝗻𝘁 or 𝗖𝗫 𝗴𝘂𝗶𝗱𝗲 adds structure.

But here’s the catch:
𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗰𝗲, 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝗿𝗼𝗼𝗺 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗹𝘆 𝗱𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀.

And that’s the gap where CX efforts stall, fragment, or lose impact.

So what’s needed?

𝗔 𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗱, 𝗼𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘇𝗲𝗱 𝗱𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝗲𝘅𝗰𝗲𝗹𝗹𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲.

Not a poster or slide, but something embedded in how you hire, train, prioritize, and measure success.

And here’s what often gets missed:

𝗖𝗫 𝗶𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗰𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗿-𝗳𝗮𝗰𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗺𝘀.

Back-office, ops, finance, legal, IT—every function shapes the experience.

If your internal teams don’t understand the experience you’re trying to create—or worse, if they’re unintentionally working against it—you’ll never achieve alignment, no matter how great your frontline is.

CX must stop being abstract and start becoming a living, breathing language—one every team speaks and practices consistently.

Imagine what’s possible when product, sales, marketing, service, and internal teams align on what “exceptional” really means—not just in theory, but in practice.

That’s when transformation begins.
That’s when CX becomes a competitive advantage—not a checkbox.

And if you’re not there yet, or unsure where to start—I can help.

I work with organizations to bridge the gap between CX intent and CX impact, building clarity, alignment, and momentum around what “exceptional” actually looks like.

Let’s talk if you’re ready to turn “we’re already doing it” into “we’re doing it right.”